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 Too much porn = total lost of sex drive? (45 Replies, Read 6588 times)
Canadaguy
# February 26, 2009, 4:50 am
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Hi,

I'm 25 male and I was single for a few months. And lately I've been watching a lot of porn. I was only masturbating with porn. At least 1 time each day, for a long time. Now I've meet this incredibly attractive women, and we are starting a relationship.

But I can't get it up anymore!!!!!! I just can't!! I've stoped the porn for almost 1 week and I can't even get it up (with her OR without her) I just have no more libido at all. I'm just not exited at all with I guest "regular real sex".

We did not (yet) tryed to have sex but we fooled around a lot and I didn't even get horny at all. Don't have to say that It didn't got hard too.

I had a girlfriend for 4 years and never had such problem (i wasn't looking at porn very much though)

Now I'm so afraid to tell her I can't get it up!! And how can I get my libido back??? I realy find her attractive and want to have sex with her sooooo bad.

Pleaaaaaaaaaaase I need helpppppp soo much!!!!

What can I do to get my libido, and in the same time my erections, back??
(I've stoped to watch that damn porn for good don't worry!!!)

God I'm so ambarassed, and don't want to loose her.

Thank you verry much!!  :squi:


Edited by Canadaguy : February 26, 2009, 4:51 am
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Jake
# March 29, 2009, 11:36 am | Post: 1
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i kinda think porn has seriously fucked with my libido too, i try to avoid it but im not always successful, recently i think ive even had dreams about porn as opposed to dreams about sex, which is pretty pathetic..in fact it seems like im addicted, ive noticed when i do succeed in avoiding it for a week or 2(still masterbating) i dont have any problems with erections, whereas if i look at porn i cant get it up without it... i wish i could stay away from it permanently
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Beverlyhillsboy
# March 30, 2009, 2:10 pm | Post: 2
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For me I can garenty you that I will stay away from that shit for a long time beleive me!
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Popeye
# April 18, 2009, 3:52 pm | Post: 3
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Porn will screw up your big brain..and your little brain. I had the problem..not anymore..

It creates confusion as to what sex is susposed to be. In a word it create unreal expectations. That neither you nor your partner can live up to. It desentizes to sex acts. Hence sexual failure..

Quit clickin' on the porn dude!!!...pay attention to real women..Things will change.
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Princess
# April 28, 2009, 5:57 pm | Post: 4
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Hi,
I have recently discovered that my boyfriend has been unable to perform sexually. He told me that the reason he can not get it up is due to porn addiction. I love my boyfriend so much but feel absoloutly devestated that he felt he had to turn to porn. I always thourght we had such a great sex life. I am 26 years old and consider myself to be quite attractive but because of my boyfriends addiction, I now feel like shit. I have no confidence or self esteem left. PLEASE LADS STAY AWAY FROM THE PORN. ITS NOT REALITY. ITS A MONEY MAKING INDUSTRIE THAT WILL NOT ONLY HURT YOU BUT ALSO YOUR LOVED ONES. ITS ADDICTIVE FOR A REASON, TO MAKE THE INDUSTRIE AS MUCH OF YOU MONEY AS POSSIBLE. THEY DONT CARE WHO YOU ARE OR WHAT EFFECT IT MAY HAVE ON YOU OR YOUR RELATIONSHIP. DONT LET IT FUCK YOU UP!!
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Coldfire
# April 29, 2009, 12:27 pm | Post: 5
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Quote From : Princess April 28, 2009, 5:57 pm
Hi,
I have recently discovered that my boyfriend has been unable to perform sexually. He told me that the reason he can not get it up is due to porn addiction. I love my boyfriend so much but feel absoloutly devestated that he felt he had to turn to porn. I always thourght we had such a great sex life. I am 26 years old and consider myself to be quite attractive but because of my boyfriends addiction, I now feel like shit. I have no confidence or self esteem left. PLEASE LADS STAY AWAY FROM THE PORN. ITS NOT REALITY. ITS A MONEY MAKING INDUSTRIE THAT WILL NOT ONLY HURT YOU BUT ALSO YOUR LOVED ONES. ITS ADDICTIVE FOR A REASON, TO MAKE THE INDUSTRIE AS MUCH OF YOU MONEY AS POSSIBLE. THEY DONT CARE WHO YOU ARE OR WHAT EFFECT IT MAY HAVE ON YOU OR YOUR RELATIONSHIP. DONT LET IT FUCK YOU UP!!
You are absolutely right! Porn like religion is not reality and fills people with unrealistic expectations,hopes and dreams.All the both are about is money and Father McFeely waiting for the alterboys to drp the soap.
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Lewis
# May 2, 2009, 6:44 pm | Post: 6
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I think this is the problem with my boyfriend. He's only 28 and his sex drive is not there. I feel like I am attacking him all the time and he shows no reaction to my advances. When I talked to him about it he said that he doesn't initiate things because he would be left feeling "vulnerable". I told him it wasn't fair that I be the only vulnerable one in the relationship. He seemed to understand and was more affectionate the next day, but went back to being the same way. I just don't know what to do anymore and I don't know how to bring this up to him. It's very embarrassing for me...like I'm not attractive and I know he will be defensive about this subject. How do I work through this?
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Dr.Barney
# June 2, 2009, 3:19 pm | Post: 7
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This is a tough situation for men that have abused there mind with porn videos. It completely messes the neurotransmitters in the brain, especially a lack of serotonin which causes dopamine/norepinpehrine conversion AKA FIGHT Or Flight response.
My advice, trash the porn!
Also, usually if a man abuses masturbation and porn together (maybe with drugs/alcohol as well) it could cause a hormonal imbalance, which must be dealt first. There quite a few ways to reverse ED in men.
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Coldfire
# June 16, 2009, 5:29 pm | Post: 8
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Quote From : Dr.Barney June 2, 2009, 3:19 pm
This is a tough situation for men that have abused there mind with porn videos. It completely messes the neurotransmitters in the brain, especially a lack of serotonin which causes dopamine/norepinpehrine conversion AKA FIGHT Or Flight response.
My advice, trash the porn!
Also, usually if a man abuses masturbation and porn together (maybe with drugs/alcohol as well) it could cause a hormonal imbalance, which must be dealt first. There quite a few ways to reverse ED in men.
Could you elaborate further I find what you have to say to be very interesting.
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Dr.Barney
# June 27, 2009, 9:36 am | Post: 9
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What would you like to know?
what are your current problems?
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Coldfire
# June 28, 2009, 2:59 pm | Post: 10
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Quote From : Dr.Barney June 27, 2009, 9:36 am
What would you like to know?
what are your current problems?
I am fine, just had a checkup and all is fine,stopped smoking 3 months ago too.You struck me as very interesting and knowledgeable
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KellyFerguson
# July 16, 2009, 11:06 am | Post: 11
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I would like to know more Dr.Barney My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years but for the last 2 years he has lost complete interest in sex - we haven't had sex for over a year now. He says he just never feels like it. He won't see a doctor or do anything about it. I am thinking of finishing it because he won't even try to fix the problem. He is 32.
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CaptainPaul
# July 22, 2009, 3:11 pm | Post: 12
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Dr Barney - I am doing some sociological research into ED and the reasons men seek medical help at a low rate. Are you an MD? If so I would greatly like to ask you some questions from the medical angle. Also if anyone else who has experienced ED (as a man or as a woman in a ED relationship) would like to get in touch please reply to paulrdawson@hotmail.com

Thanks
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Jimmy-Rimmy
# July 29, 2009, 12:41 pm | Post: 13
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I am well pissed off! I got off with this woman last night and this was the first time for a while. Then I couldn't get an erection. At all! I have been wanking to stupid porn a lot recently as I have been on my own and frustrated. Could this be the problem? I also used to be a real drug addict and have all sorts of sex problems during to being wasted, but I have been clean for 3 years. In that 3 years I have only had a few brief relationships, and I did ok sexually although I did lose my erection on occasion which I put down to nerves and performance anxiety - I always used to be wasted before I had sex before you see..
And if those two combined things aren't enough I have also started worrying about maybe I have something like Prostatis as I get a horrible dull ache in my groin after orgasm sometimes....
SO what do you reckon people..? Too much porn making me not feel attracted to 'normal' girls? Anxiety and nerves (which will be certainly worse next time now)? Or medical problems?? I think I'm going to cry...
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Gratton
# July 31, 2009, 11:38 am | Post: 14
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I've hooked up with plenty of women and never had any problems getting it up. Some even asked me if I was on viagra. Anyway I got a computer like 5 months ago and could not help checking out porn, I figured it was one of the benefits of having a one. But I think that shit really did give me problems because I've seen to much of it it's not as exciting anymore. So I'm having problems getting and maintaining an erection. It has to be the reason. I just realized this so I'm gonna stop immediately. Save yourself stop jackin to porn you pervs.
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